reflecting

Today when to wushu as per normal...hmm..actually today not in a gd mood becos of some issues happened ytd....think should be time to move on and be a better person...probably i have been misleaded...but the answer is clear nw...it seems hard to accept the fact...but...nan zi han...nan de qi...fang de xia...hahax

is true friendship possible between a guy and a gal?? this questions seems to be very simple but actually it is hard to answer as well...i had heard rare cases of true friendship between them...but mostly the friendship might end or hurt when one party started to develop feelings for the other...

so...wat is the best solution for this problem?? avoiding each other till the problem is solve?? or just remain as friends throughout and wish each other happiness??

the most friendly option would be the second choice...remain as friends and wish each other all de best...it may be easy to say..but hard to fulfill...while remaining as friend..1 party might be hurt and the other party might nt be aware of the damage done....if choose the first option and avioding each other....both party might be hurt as friendship turns sour and probably might end instead...


is it a better choice to take up the second option?? 1 person suffer rather then 2 person suffer?? or is it fair to let that 1 person take all the sufferings??

all dis seems more complicated then tons of books i had study before...the best solution to this problem is very simple...pure friendship and nth else....but...can this be done?? can feelings be control??

majority of the ppl i knw told me this kind of thing can't be control...when it comes..it just comes naturally...nth else.....cannot blame that person for having feelings as well...

In addition...theres a saying..."time heal all wounds" let the time wash away those memories and move on....but..theres another saying " time make u get use to the wounds" which means the wound is already there forever..just that u get use to the pain..thats all..

so....wat should the decision be?? just take it as nth and carry on per normal??? or one party pull out of it and suffer a while and let time slowly heal the wounds??